M O J O

The MAD exLover Syndrome

2009-10-15T09:02:00.000-07:00

Well..

This is the crazy facts, I've been dealing with ex lovers that have been dumped, but clearly they can't accept it. Which is really sad to hear.. Actually there's none of my business with why this, but I don't know why they've been dragging me to their f*cking problems.

So, I did some research about how they reacted. It's almost the same..

This is the result of my research:

Why they became a mad ex-boyfriend/girlfriend (most of them are ex-boyfriends):

- Basically they can't accept that they just got dumped by their lover.

- Maybe because they did something terrible and pretend they did nothing without apologizing.

- or They got too upset because there's no good reason why they got dumped, the relationship is steady but things just didn't work out.

- etc...

The syndrome of a mad ex-boyfriend/girlfriend:

- Spilling secrets. (I don't give a damn with other's secrets, so please stop telling me, I'm just not interested)

- Create a rumors or gossips about their ex.

- Got upset, trying to find a black sheep to blame.

- Terrorizing! This one is good, the one is keep on trying to contact his ex's relatives to spread bad things about his ex. CRAZY!

- Stalking their ex Facebook, twitter or others. (the worst one is he keeps on posting bad comments in his ex's Facebook, insanity)

- Telling the world how miserable they are without their ex.

- BLACKMAILING!! well, if you know what I mean.

- Screaming out loud, calling their ex's name.

Why people just can't move on?? Sure.. I got dumped before..

it's sucks.. hurts so much, I felt like the world is falling apart.

but that's life.. we have to move on. I know it's hard, but we have our life that is waiting for us..

so SUCK IT UP people.

Sure, it's normal to be upset, angry, sad. so..

Tips if you are one of the mad exLover:

- Just cry till you drop and sleep....

- eat whatever you want, stop thinking about diet for a while (I ate butter and nutella out of the jar for God's sake)

- go laugh.. find some comedy movies (Friends is so recommended)

- do some sports, the endocrine hormone will help you to feel happy.

- do what ever you like to do, play some instruments.

- Try find someone new (rebound). For this one I can't guarantee it will work, cuz it's just doesn't work to me. But, for some people it does..

As long as you stay out of trouble and stop messing with people's life. You'll survive!

If you feel like you've been treated like sh*t by your ex, just think of Karma.

What goes around, comes around. What goes up, must come down - Alicia Keys. :)

by Monster JO

My Birthday

2009-10-04T20:54:00.000-07:00

29th September 2009

I finally turned 22 years old.

I should get wiser

more mature in life

more responsible of my actions.

I had a nice dinner with my friends at Little Baghdad.

They gave me my favorite strawberry cheesecake from Harvest. It was sooo nice.. And I got sandals from them. I always want sandals, I broke mine a few days before.

Thank you guys.

Was great moments and sure I'll never forget about you all.

That day also was the hardest time of my life, I can't share about what did happened that day. But its like I lost a part of my soul. Sure I'm still struggling to live without it and trying let it go.

I miss you.

The Heart Of The Matter

2009-09-29T23:46:00.000-07:00

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear

But I knew that it would come

An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone

She said you found someone

And I thought of all the bad luck,

And all the struggles we went through

How I lost me and you lost you

What are these voices outside love's open door

Make us throw off our contentment

And beg for something more?

I've been learning to live without you now

But I miss you sometimes

The more I know, the less I understand

All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter

But my will gets weak

And my thoughts seem to scatter

But I think it's about forgiveness

Forgiveness

Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

These times are so uncertain

There's a yearning undefined

And people filled with rage

We all need a little tenderness

How can love survive in such a graceless age

And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness

They're the very things we kill, I guess

Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms

And the work they put between us,

You know it doesn't keep us warm

I've been trying to live without you now

But I miss you, baby

The more I know, the less I understand

And all the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter

But my will gets weak

And my heart is so shattered

But I think it's about forgiveness

Forgiveness

Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

All the people in your life who've come and gone

They let you down, you know they hurt your pride

Better put it all behind you; cause life goes on

You keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside

I want a happily everafter

And my heart is so shattered

But I know it's about forgiveness

Forgiveness

Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter

Because the flesh gets weak

And the ashes will scatter

So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness

Forgiveness

Even if you don't love me anymore

Even if you don't love me anymore

BEAT!

2009-09-27T11:23:00.000-07:00

I bought this Burberry Beat perfume today. I fell in love with this perfume from the first time I saw the advertisement at GQ. The magazine gave a sample of the perfume and I can't stop smelling it. (the mag is now gone, since my friend Qdoet stole it from me).

Still, this perfume is great! the mixture is so perfect.. Black pepper, mint and lemon are the part of the perfume. AWESOMENESS!!

Speaking about perfume.. seems like mojo is addicted to perfume.

for me perfumes gave me advantages:

1. The smell is so good..

2. They can affect your emotion and mood. believe me this is true.

3. They can cover your smell. If your smell like a shit.. just cover your body with perfumes!!! Then the world will be a better place.

well.. the thing is, mojo never smell bad. He will always smell so damn good..

Sometimes, when you are late for an appointment and you don't have the time to take a quick shower.. Just spray a perfume and you'll be safe. But make sure you choose the right perfume.. :D

That's the magic of perfume for me, people will never know whether I took a bath when I go out or not. (please.. I am not dingy, I am just busy)

Oh yeah.. These are perfumes that I recommended (for Men):

1. Davidoff cool water

2. Burberry Beat

3. Dsquared2 wood

4. Paco rabanne 1 million

5. Sean John unforgivable

6. Chanel Allure Sport

7. DKNY Be delicious

8. Dior Homme sport

ENJOY!

MY WISH LIST

2009-09-19T10:12:00.000-07:00

Mojo is getting older in a few days from now and he is demanding presents to cheer him up, because basically he is not excited bout his birthday..

so.. this is his 22 wish lists:

1. a classic guitar!

2. an unlimited credit card.

3. Maserati car.

4. a white stereo or a white iPhone dock. OR an iPHONE 3GS.. *gig. anything related to apple.. Damn! I really make Steve Jobs even richer..

5. Sony Playstation 3.

6. a machine that can make me taller.

7. FOOD supplies for a month.

8. a gun with a license of course. I don't want to get arrested because of a possession of an illegal weapon.

9. kiss kiss hug hug for years!

10. a ticket for concerts, better if I can sneak into the backstage.

11. BOXERS!

12. a tour to Greece, South Africa, or Dubai.

13. I want to meet and kiss TAYLOR SWIFT!

14. Frozen yogurt machine..

15. a freaking job. So that I can earn more more more and MORE money.

16. a new wallet.

17. Shoes and sandals!

18. Perfumes!!

19. a mirror (big one) or a painting also would be nice or candles or something that can decorate my empty apartment.

20. Books are always welcome. except for harlequin, chick lit, teen lit, whatsoever.. I will just put it beside of my dusty bible.. self improvement books, business books and others are preferable.

21. Doraemon.

22. The love of my life. I just haven't met you yet.

well guys.. if you still have no clue.. then just surprise me with your presents. it will be better than perfect!

cause whatever the presents you are about to give me.

I'll appreciate it and will be very thankful.

xoxo,

MOJO

Happy Birthday

2009-09-19T08:58:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday!

Stephanie Desiree

happy birthday to my dear friend..

you've been a really good friend of mine.

wish you all the best.

xoxo,

mojo

I am broke and I am cheap

2009-09-10T08:45:00.000-07:00

I checked my wallet this morning, and I only had Rp80,000 and there's was not much left in my bank account (so it's useless to go to the ATM). Which is bad, because I needed to pay the gas and food for today and tomorrow.. I also needed to use the internet to do some work and to download some stuff for my macbook and iPhone.

SO...... This is what I've done to live cheap, because I'm broke.

I ate a bread this morning and an orange juice which I bought yesterday (Thanks God, otherwise I will be starving to death). So, I drove to the campus with a limited resource of gas.

Then.. after I was done with the campus thingy. I went to the gas station, to refill my car with Rp30,000 premium. Hehehe.. I've never done that before in my entire life.

Oh yeah, i still went to gym, ate nothing.. Only a cup of triple grande skinny latte from Starbucks, which I payed with my credit card (sorry mom). Then I drove to pluit, thanks to E-tol card I didn't have to pay the bill right away. I kidnapped my friend Zefanya, then I went to Anton's house.

I've downloaded so many applications for my iPhone. YEEPEEE! loves it.. :-)

Then I realized that I was starvinggggg........ But i didn't have the money to buy a good food. So, i stole foods from Toa's house, then we went to a place that sell a portion of fried rice for Rp7,000. Hahaha..

My pray before I ate: "Thanks God to the meal, please.. I will not have a stomachache after I eat this food." (let's see tomorrow, cuz my stomach just like a prince's stomach) *gig*

Thanks to Anya, she paid for the food..

I'm quoting the tittle "I am broke and I am cheap" from my UK friend, Sarah.. She can live with£16 for a month! Damn, she is good.. I should learn so much from her.

well, lesson to be learn.. You have to appreciate every penny that you have, do NOT waste it! Even it's a coin, it's still MONEY tho.. LOL