The MAD exLover Syndrome

Well..

This is the crazy facts, I've been dealing with ex lovers that have been dumped, but clearly they can't accept it. Which is really sad to hear.. Actually there's none of my business with why this, but I don't know why they've been dragging me to their f*cking problems.

So, I did some research about how they reacted. It's almost the same..

This is the result of my research:

Why they became a mad ex-boyfriend/girlfriend (most of them are ex-boyfriends):

- Basically they can't accept that they just got dumped by their lover.

- Maybe because they did something terrible and pretend they did nothing without apologizing.

- or They got too upset because there's no good reason why they got dumped, the relationship is steady but things just didn't work out.

- etc...

The syndrome of a mad ex-boyfriend/girlfriend:

- Spilling secrets. (I don't give a damn with other's secrets, so please stop telling me, I'm just not interested)

- Create a rumors or gossips about their ex.

- Got upset, trying to find a black sheep to blame.

- Terrorizing! This one is good, the one is keep on trying to contact his ex's relatives to spread bad things about his ex. CRAZY!

- Stalking their ex Facebook, twitter or others. (the worst one is he keeps on posting bad comments in his ex's Facebook, insanity)

- Telling the world how miserable they are without their ex.

- BLACKMAILING!! well, if you know what I mean.

- Screaming out loud, calling their ex's name.

Why people just can't move on?? Sure.. I got dumped before..

it's sucks.. hurts so much, I felt like the world is falling apart.

but that's life.. we have to move on. I know it's hard, but we have our life that is waiting for us..

so SUCK IT UP people.

Sure, it's normal to be upset, angry, sad. so..

Tips if you are one of the mad exLover:

- Just cry till you drop and sleep....

- eat whatever you want, stop thinking about diet for a while (I ate butter and nutella out of the jar for God's sake)

- go laugh.. find some comedy movies (Friends is so recommended)

- do some sports, the endocrine hormone will help you to feel happy.

- do what ever you like to do, play some instruments.

- Try find someone new (rebound). For this one I can't guarantee it will work, cuz it's just doesn't work to me. But, for some people it does..

As long as you stay out of trouble and stop messing with people's life. You'll survive!

If you feel like you've been treated like sh*t by your ex, just think of Karma.

What goes around, comes around. What goes up, must come down - Alicia Keys. :)

by Monster JO